Deceptive Flattery
Proverbs 31:30 (Amplified) “Charm and grace are deceptive, and [superficial] beauty is vain,
But a woman who fears the Lord [reverently worshiping, obeying, serving, and trusting Him with awe-filled respect], she shall be praised.”
Although the middle part of this scripture references a woman, anyone can relate to this scripture. In fact, it is best to personalize it. For example,
But if ______(Your Name)__________fears the Lord, _______(Your Name)_______ shall be praised.
If a person seeks attention, someone will flatter them with superfluous, superficial words to stroke their ego and make them feel better. God is warning that flattering words can be deceptive. People easily say things they don’t mean. I’m not saying that every person who compliments you is trying to deceive you. The point is that if you only seek flattery, you will be like a lamb heading for the slaughter.
Today’s culture yearns to read or hear flattery from someone else. Did you know that having this kind of behavior opens the door to other types of bad behavior? At the top of the list is approval addiction. Also narcissism. Yes. A narcissist constantly craves and depends on excessive flattery and praise from others. That is why they can’t feel empathy for others because their attention is focused on themselves. They look for people who can validate them and people with high empathy for others.
God has already validated you. Nothing can separate you from the love of God. God loves you! He wants you to follow Him, not crave others’ attention. If you fear (reverently worship, obey, serve, and trust Him) the Lord, you will be praised beyond measure.
Be Blessed!
Ron
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